Eben Alexander talks about his book, Living in a Mindful Universe
If we do something wrong in our lives that causes loss and changes our course, does that mistake change the path that was predetermined or is that mistake (that I now look back on with much regret) indeed part of our predetermined path?
I don’t accept your starting premises about making wrong choices and predestination. We make choices the best we can knowing what we know at the time. If we come to learn more later and regret our choice, that doesn’t mean we did something wrong or bad. It simply led us to our present situation. Our destiny is the choices we have made and the choices we make in the present.